Please note that this month's munch will be on 10/11! A munch is a casual, low pressure event designed for people to socialize and meet new folks with a common interest in...
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Monthly East Bay meetup for the polyamory and open relationships community.
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Introvert-centered • Cyberpunk Vibes • Sober & Structured Get to know yourself and others Intellectually and/or Sensually. What if a play party was designed for curious minds, shy...
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We are so happy to welcome you to a beloved VoxBody tradition: our Sunday afternoon rope jams! Ease on in second Sundays 2-5pm! Tea, snacks, chill tunes, good folks to set the...
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Welcome To The Oakland Non-Monogameetups! (formerly Poly Happy Hour) We're a non-monogamous gathering which brings together communities from across the Bay Area for an evening of...
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Tangle! Mission Control Weekday Peer Rope Jam Monday, September 14th GET TICKET HERE: https://events.missioncontrolsf.org/events/94215 🕰️ SCHEDULE 6:30 PM – Doors open (arrive...
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The parties not over FREAKS. Freakyoke has got a special treat for our freakiest yokers, the FREAKIEST-Yoke yet: KINKYOKE @theestorkcluboakland ! Unlike regular Freakyoke, the...
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In collaboration with Lief Bound, Grey and Rhiannon, VoxBody is excited to offer T4T Rope Jam , a trans*-exclusive rope event to build community and do a little rope while we’re...
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A bar night by leather dykes for leather dykes, trans, enby, femmes, mascs, gays, and queer folks of all genders. If you are queer and leather, you belong here! Come have a drink...
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Mariela ( @MariCherry ) and MariFuego ( @pincxcuerdas ) invite you to our exclusive QTBIPOC Rope Drop-in Classes at VoxBody! This is an educational trauma informed rope space for...
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Welcome to FUNDAMENTALS , the first deep-dive series in VoxBody Studio's Core Curriculum ! FUNDAMENTALS are the classes for you if: * you are comfortable tying a single & double...
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Bound to Rise is a kinky community space that blends presence, connection, and rope bondage into one delightful evening. Rooted in community, learning, and respect, it offers a...
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Join us for Mission Control’s 3rd annual Trench Coat Party. Bring your best trench coat, it's up to you what you're wearing, or not wearing, underneath. A trench coat, or...
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IMPROV(E) YOUR DATING LIFE Explore your dating tendencies, expand your dating pool, and live in the moment in this improv-based dating course. Dates: Third Friday of the Month...
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Inspired by Ceci Ferox (Berlin) and the event they facilitated at VoxBody in October 2023, we are thrilled to continue Fat Lab as quarterly events in 2026! Welcome to Fat Lab, a...
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Saturday, October 17th - at Radiance. To attend text (contact details on the organizer's page) to schedule a 15 minute phone screening. 👹🕹️ Monstercade 👹🕹️ Monstercade is...
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𝑻𝒐𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒖𝒂𝒈𝒆 - and most of us were only ever taught a handful of words. 🌿 During this hot, playful evening, you and your partner will 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓...
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Dark Desires Presented by Mission Control’s All Beautiful Creatures and Girlgy™ Saturday, October 17, 2026 | 8pm - 2am Oakland, CA - address released to ticket holders (not at...
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Get a head start on Halloween at our mid-October Rope Lab! Don your spookiest attire and summon the spirit of All Hallows’ Eve…a bit ahead of schedule. As always, costumes / theme...
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Join us for a heart-centered sound journey. Come as you are, leave feeling lighter & more peaceful. Guided by the resonant tones of crystal singing bowls, grounding drums, the...
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This week, the Tuesday workshop is being hosted at Alchemy House’s gorgeous Temple event space! (If you attend B2R on Friday, this is a different lesson, a compliments it well)...
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Join our FetLife group for notices and updates for future events! https://fetlife.com/groups/144564 This is the monthly meetup for Kinky People of Color Bay Area, Hosted by...
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Join Anoxia and Kasm (Chicago) for a three-hour, hands-on class that distills the core principles of movement-informed tying - drawing inspiration from contact improv, social...
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WELCOME to MoreIsMore An intersectional non-monogamy matchmaking experience held for beloveds by beloveds. This event draws OPEN, committed, silly and diverse-connection-curious...
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Connect deeper with AMAZING people! It's Halloween Time! Well, almost Halloween! 😅 This is your chance to beta test your costumes or to blow us away with your creativity! Let's...
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Are you loving rope bondage and ready for the next level? Join us for PROGRESSIONS, our 201-deep dive! PROGRESSIONS are the classes for you if: you have attended our FUNDAMENTALS...
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Kinky People of Color presents “Beat Down” Kinky People of Color: Bay Area invites you to our POC exclusive Impact Jam: Beat Down *Halloween Edition*! If you identify as a Person...
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Greetings lovers! This year we will be celebrating the best time of year, Halloween, at our cozy lil dungeon. Costumes are heavily encouraged! And there will be a prize for the...
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Ooh la la, come spend a Friday night doing some rope at the lovely VoxBody Studio! The lights will be dimmed, the tunes will be sensual; we invite you to set aside the labtime and...
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Join Moxie and Ivy for an introductory course about shibari, also known as rope bondage. This class is for absolute beginners! You can expect to learn some knots and ties to...
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This event is for non-monogamous people (and allies) who want to build community while in nature. We will start promptly at 10:15am. You’re welcome to show up at 10am to meet and...
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A Celebration of Consensual Touch If you’ve been looking to explore and you don’t know where to get started, this party is for you. Physical sensation that fosters connection...
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RSVPs do not reflect actual attendance...event is listed on multiple sites All Ages Venue serves Food and Alcohol The East Bay Open Meetup is a monthly gathering of friendly folk...
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The Bonobo Meetup Tuesday October 27, 2026 7pm-10pm Hey Bonobos and Friends! The Bonobo Meetup is a fantastic way to get to know each other with our clothes on in a fun...
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Lief and Icky are back with their 201 Rope class as part of a three class progressive series! This class is perfect for the person that has started their rope journey, maybe has...
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Doors: 6:30; Start: 7:30. Sultry Sessions, an open-mic space to get explicit & naughty via story telling, poetry, music or unique art forms! This year each month we'll offer a...
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For those currently attending any of our Core Curriculum classes and longing for more practice time, we are happy to add these lab time sessions to the 2026 calendar! * open...
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Join us for a Halloween mixer before our final party of the year. Costumes are most definitely encouraged! Freakquency is a judgment-free, consent-first event centering the...
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VoxBody is so pleased to welcome back the hosts of Wrapt for an East Bay rope jam and skill share event! Wrapt is a monthly rope jam hosted by AfterDark events, every fourth...
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Some doors only open once a year. To attend text (contact details on the organizer's page) to schedule a 15 minute phone screening. 🕯️ Veil Between Worlds 🕯️ One night a year...
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We are so happy to welcome you to a beloved VoxBody tradition: our Sunday afternoon rope jams! Ease on in second Sundays 2-5pm! Tea, snacks, chill tunes, good folks to set the...
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Hey Bonobos and Friends! Let’s raise a glass before we get our groove on together! Tuesday, November 3rd, 2026 7pm-10pm First time? Want to know what Bonobo Network is? Come on...
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Are you looking to learn new skills to help you build better non-monogamous relationships? Do you want to get new ideas and perspectives from other ENM folks on the challenges you...
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In collaboration with VoxBody Studio, Kinky People of Color (KPOC) presents a special Dia de Muertos celebration at House of Braids! KPOC Bay Area invites you to our POC-exclusive...
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You’ve experienced your first suspension! Now what?! ONWARD is the series for you if: you have completed the ASCENT series and are ready for more! you both have experienced your...
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The last Chemistry Collective of 2026! Overview Queer art, a hilarious and sexy comedy and burlesque show, and a high connection open community party come together as one...
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NOTE: This event is cross posted, so RSVPs on Plura do not reflect the actual number of tickets sold. We often sell out a week or so before the event, so it is advised to get your...
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Join Moxie and Ivy for an introductory course about shibari, also known as rope bondage. This class is for absolute beginners! You can expect to learn some knots and ties to...
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