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Bring your crafting materials--or use some of ours--and spend a cozy evening at Coil & Cord surrounded by fellow queers. Good company, creative energy, and a welcoming space to...
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY FRIDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA (contact details on the organizer's page) AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE...
BLACK LINGERIE NIGHT !!! LADIES WEAR YOUR SEXIEST BLACK LINGERIE AND BLACK OUTFITS. A party done in a classy and erotic way! BEAUTIFUL COUPLES AND SINGLE GIRLS NO SINGLE MEN
House of Scorpio presents Sinema Club: James Avalon's "Les Vampyres" (2000) Sun Oct 11*, 7pm-11:30pm, 21+ (25+ suggested); open to all** Members: $0-10 / non-members: $10 + $2 fee...
Awaken your cervix with hypnosis and come to know her divine pleasure 21+ West 14th st Exact address emailed upon registration This event is for cervix owners only (Energetic or...
Kinky figure drawing and other fun arts and shafts ...and you can drink, too! BYOB. For artists wishing figure drawing classes were a little racier and exhibitionists who long to...
Please arrive between 2:40-3pm. Late comers are not guaranteed entry. address given with confirmation email. This is a body inclusive WORKSHOP for all male/masc identifying...
Every Monday, 5pm-9pm Chill space for rope practice & play. Coil & Cord Studio has numerous suspension points (including single points, bamboo, and hashira posts), mats, and cozy...
Note date change to Mon 10 /12 (Was Mon 9/28) Express rage and grief through ritual, embodiment, movement and sound. 💜 Workshop Doors Open: 7:30 PM (doors close at 7:45 PM sharp)...
This is a Pagans Paradise class hosted by Blu Event Details: Doors Open: 7:30 PM (doors close at 7:40 PM) Event Ends: 9:30 PM Location: Provided in your confirmation email Close...
How to safely T the C and the B. CBT Workshop. CBT at its finest. How to safely T the C and the B and bust the balls! This is a 21+ event. #TaillorCollective #Femdom...
Have you been curious about Shibari? Bound & Bonded is a class for curious hearts & courageous hands Bound & Bonded: A Play on Connection Ready to explore a deeper connection...
Immerse yourself in a Pagans Paradise Signature exclusive offering: a themed gathering blending connection, education, and demonstrations hosted by Jamie Joy EVENT DETAILS 💜...
Experience the warmth of queer community in an evening that leaves you feeling connected, relaxed, and truly seen. This is a Pagans Paradise themed social gathering with...
Harness Lab Upcoming dates: The Harness Lab is part workshop, part skill share, part collaborative practice & experimentation space - dedicated to a specific harness or form each...
A BDSM Workshop on Dominance by Madame Lilith Dominance isn't about force - it's about intention and trust . This workshop breaks down what actually creates a commanding presence...
EVENT DETAILS 🕗 Doors Open: 7:00 PM (Doors close 7:15 PM) 🕗 Event Ends: 10:00 PM 📍 Location: Near Herald Square (Full address provided in your confirmation email) 🌟...
🌿⚔️ Kinky CannaMunch: Joint Forces ⚔️🌿 Queens Munch × Kinky CannaMunch - Celebrating QueenHershey’s Birthday Hey, Kinky Stoners! 🌿💨 October is @QueenHershey’s Birthday Month!...
Where Presence Meets Play When was the last time you truly experienced your partner? Not while talking about work. Not while scrolling your phones. Not while managing...
Boxed Set: a TK workshop series with Sam Jay & Zero-Gi The TK (takate-kote), also called a box tie or gote more broadly, is a classic shibari form that can be tied in many...
An intimate dinner exploring the psychology of fetish, fantasy, taboo, and desire with author and educator Miss Bloom. What shapes the things we desire? Why are some attractions...
KINKY SHADOW WORK 101: Healing Trauma with Kink Event Details 🕗 Workshop: 7:30pm 🕗 Event ends: 10:30pm 📍 Location: Herald Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation...
Event Details: Doors Open: 7:00 PM (doors close at 7:15 PM) Event Ends: 11:00 PM Location: Near Union Square - Full address provided in your confirmation email Accessibility...
How to Sex Party: Things I Wish I Had Learned Sooner How to Sex Party is about everything else that happens when you put a bunch of humans, and all of their desires, insecurities...
An IRL experience for those who are thoughtfully approaching dating. // about \\ ‘the feels’ is a 3-hour in-person dating event in NYC, designed for people who want more...
A workshop on Consent and Communication, cleverly disguised as a Pajama Party Have recent events left you feeling deprived of opportunities for touch? Do you feel stressed...
For the nights when Netflix and Chill is too vanilla Classrooms, offices, and interrogation tables. In need of a good hard slap on the ass? Craving a little punishment to keep you...
TICKETS ARE EXCLUSIVE TO EFFERVESCENZ MEMBERS. 🔗 Learn more about Effervescenz and apply to join our community. Strip. Steam. Spill. A sex-positive, but not sex-forward night at...
A Ball-Busting & CBT Workshop by Madame Lilith Experience the agony - and ecstasy - of CBT in Her hands. Madame Lilith redefines CBT with Her signature techniques - and She’s...
An Open Conversation on submissive Desires with Madame Lilith Please note: This event starts at 6:15 PM, leaving just enough time for everyone to grab a beverage at the bar before...
A Workshop on the Erotic Fetishism of Foot Stuff. Join us for a kink workshop exploring foot, sock, and boot fetishes in BDSM; massages over fluffy slouch socks, trampling, toe...
A warm evening of sensual exploration and erotic connection, featuring guided practices, consensual touch, and conscious interactions Join us for Desire Lab, an immersive evening...
Kinky figure drawing for exhibitionists and artistically inclined folks For artists wishing figure drawing classes were a little racier and exhibitionists who long to be a muse...
Intro to Trans Femme Sexuality Trans Femme Sexuality is a workshop for those who love trans femmes and want to learn the techniques of pleasuring trans feminine bodies using...
This is a playful experiment exploring the sexual fantasies and desires we might normally keep hidden - the ones that bring up shame, embarrassment, curiosity, or a delicious...
IMPACT 101 | Flogging Fundamentals Learn it. Practice it. Build confidence with it. IMPACT 101 is a two-hour, hands-on class for men who want to learn, practice, and become more...
Naturist Yoga - Come as You Are This is a Pagans Paradise class hosted by Goddess Shakti Event Details: Doors Open: 12 PM (doors close at 12:10 PM) Event Ends: 1:30 PM Location...
LABYRINTH IS OPEN EVERY SATURDAY!! - 9PM to 4AM NOW OPEN WEDNESDAY THRU SATURDAY EVERY WEEK. RSVP VIA (contact details on the organizer's page) AND MENTION SLS IN YOUR MESSAGE...
SENSATION NYC | A More Connected BDSM Play Party Slow down. Feel more. Explore with intention. Sensation NYC is an erotic, sensual, kinky, and intimate BDSM play party built...
IMPACT MEN | Men’s BDSM Play Party Impact. Bondage. BDSM. Men playing with men. IMPACT MEN is a Saturday afternoon BDSM play party for men who want to connect, negotiate, and play...
Decolonize Your Pleasure | An Ancestral Pleasure Ritual + Play Party This is a Pagans Paradise and Sovereign Love NYC themed social gathering with educational and performance...
House of Scorpio presents Two flirting parties in one: FemFlirt (F4F + NB) & MeetMarket (all genders) Fri Oct 16, 9pm-1am (intros & social games 9-10pm), 21+ (25+ suggested), open...
Enter Playhouse: Mysterium, where nothing is quite what it seems. Leave the ordinary behind and step into a world built on mystery, magic, fortune, and the thrill of not knowing...
This event is for male/masc presenting folx (18+). DOORS OPEN AT 8 AND CLOSE AT 9pm. LATE COMERS ARE NOT GUARANTEED ENTRY. WHAT TO EXPECT: Happy Halloween! This is a sexy social...
(Discounted price if you Pay on Venmo-$40 Message Makeupandsin or HornyStoner on Instagram to confirm Registration) Join Horny Stoner and Nicky O for High Maintenance, a cozy...
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