The Bonobo Meetup Tuesday October 27, 2026 7pm-10pm Hey Bonobos and Friends! The Bonobo Meetup is a fantastic way to get to know each other with our clothes on in a fun...
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Join us for an evening of games, community, and connection at our Kink & Queer Friendly Tabletop Social! Whether you're a seasoned strategist, a casual player, or just looking to...
Come chat and play some board games with local ENM folks! This is a recurring event hosted by the same people that host the ENM Happy Hour meetup. We typically meet every 2nd and...
We’re back for the spookiest month of the year 👻🕸️🕷️🎃 Come dressed up as your favorite MTG character or bring your scariest decks. 🧙🏻♂️✨ Mugs & Magic 🌈 Sip, Upkeep, Draw!...
The Novato ENM Meetup is a welcoming social space for people who are part of, exploring, or simply curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Each meetup begins with a casual...
The Marin ENM Meetup is a welcoming social space for people who are part of, exploring, or simply curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Event Guidelines: • No cruising...
Come socialize with your fellow kinky autistics in a sensory-friendly space where you can take off your (figurative) mask (physical KN-95+ masks are required - some will be...
Join us for an enriching and supportive monthly gathering designed for individuals navigating the beautiful complexities of polyamorous and consensually non-monogamous...
We will use pleasure to invoke the goddess of red magic, with history extending back to Goddess Inanna of Mesopotamia. Ask and receive. Location: Midtown. Exact address emailed...
Welcome to Bay Area Poly Happy Hour! We're a non-monogamous happy hour bringing together communities from across the Bay Area. Find SF poly hh links (donations, events, etc)...
Doors: 6:30; Start: 7:30. Sultry Sessions, an open-mic space to get explicit & naughty via story telling, poetry, music or unique art forms! This year each month we'll offer a...
Upper Manhattan Non-Monogamy Mixer LIKE FINE WINE Monthly meet and greet focused on older folks who are interested, new, or experienced in non-monogamy (casual dating, open...
Bass n Babes is taking Halloween back to 1999, when vampires ruled, witches were trendsettingly sapphic, and slayers were saving the world. That's right, we're doing Buffy the...
This support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences...
Practice is a 2-hour relational practice lab for noticing what actually happens to us in relationship…especially when things get messy, activating, confusing, or uncomfortable...
Ponies and handlers, please join us to socialize, work on DIY ponyplay gear, and share tack ideas! This event is for anyone with an interest in ponyplay & making tack, no matter...
Come on over to our queer- and kink-friendly space for a fun and engaging time! Bring your current craft project and enjoy some quality time with your community. Let's stitch...
Join Master Ray and slave Lexi, the 2026 WA State Master slave pair, as they sit down with Liza and slayv Jody, NW M/s 2010, International Master/slave 2011/2021, and discuss your...
If possible, please RSVP YES at least 24 hours ahead (preferably here on Fetlife) so we can give Denny's an accurate count and they can assign sufficient servers! The VCPX Munch...
Are you looking to learn new skills to help you build better non-monogamous relationships? Do you want to get new ideas and perspectives from other ENM folks on the challenges you...
The next IN PERSON SoCal Polyam Support Group meeting is Wednesday, Nov 4th at Sanctuary LAX in Los Angeles from 7pm to 9pm. Topic: Balancing needs of personal autonomy and inter...
The Table is an invitation-only dinner hosted by The Group, created for open-minded, professionals who value connection as much as craft. Each evening brings together a small...
Curious about hypnosis? Already experienced with trance and mind play? Just looking for other people whose brains get excited about brains? Come join us! Oaklandish Hypno Munch is...
Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Doors open at 6:40, for open socializing, discussion begins at 7. We are delighted to invite you to our upcoming event on Ethical...
This is an open peer support group. We use creative arts modalities (mainly poetry and drama) to explore and share emotions and experiences together. This is a support group made...
Come play board games and make new kinky friends, every other Thursday! Bringing your own games and snacks is encouraged.
Get ready to meet like-minded adventurers for a fun and flirty mixer that’s anything but ordinary. The Kinky Dating Mixers team is doing it again, and we’re excited to bring...
The Table is an invitation-only dinner hosted by The Group, created for open-minded, professionals who value connection as much as craft. Each evening brings together a small...
Have you been craving connection and real presence? Maybe even a cuddle buddy or a cozy collaborator to share the wintering season with? Well, this is your invitation. 🍂 Autumn...
Every month Society of Janus hosts the SF Munch on the 1st Saturday of the month! Check each months listing as we sometimes change locations. Join us this month at Victory Hall!...
Ready to mix, mingle, and spark some fun connections with a kinky twist? The Kinky Dating Mixers team is hosting again in San Francisco, and bringing a special Male Dom & Sub...
Event info We'll be in the food court of the Public Market! There is plenty of parking across the street. For public transit users, you can get here via AC Transit from MacArthur...
Some stories help us grow up. Others help us remember who we were before we learned to hide. “Animated Conversations” is a cozy monthly gathering for adults who want to slow down...
This support group is a confidential, affirming space for transmasculine people, including trans men and transmasc nonbinary folks. The group is centered on shared experiences...
Misfits in Touch is a guided relational practice space where you practice being yourself in connection - with other humans. If you’ve done the inner work but want to actually live...
Don’t shove that costume to the back of your closet just yet! Join your friends at ASK Seattle for even more tricks and treats. Full dungeon will be available 8-midnight. Doors...
Interested in building more community in Jersey? We Are! (City folk are also welcome, of course!) Open to anyone and everyone who's interested in polyamory/ethical non-monogamy...
Bring your crafting materials--or use some of ours--and spend a cozy evening at Coil & Cord surrounded by fellow queers. Good company, creative energy, and a welcoming space to...
Sub Club is a support/discussion group for all varieties of s-types. Sub Club's mission is empowering s-types with the knowledge they need to create fun, safe, sexy kink...
A bar night by leather dykes for leather dykes, trans, enby, femmes, mascs, gays, and queer folks of all genders. If you are queer and leather, you belong here! Come have a drink...
Sing your heart out and express yourself in a wholesome environment hosted by our resident dating and relationship specialist, Lord Erebus. EVENT DETAILS 🕗 Doors Open: 7:00 PM 🕗...
Fun high-quality nightlife entertainment ... without leaving the Peninsula! Featuring burlesque, drag, and other variety performers on a catwalk stage, Silhouette is a sensual...
We can't promise love, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people, a lot of people, fast. Our purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. - Find people with...
We are a queer-hosted social event open to all genders and orientations aimed at creating intentional community for Poly/ENM folks in Queens. ( And those interested in traveling...
This isn’t your grandma’s book club, unless your grandma likes talking about non-traditional relationships, sex, and BDSM! (Grandmas welcome) Dr. Jen will facilitate conversation...
North Bay Poly/ENM A space for the Poly/ENM and sex positive community of the San Francisco North Bay to connect with each other. Drop by, say hi, tell a friend, bring a friend...
Pink! Drinks Friday November 13th 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm Graffiti Pizza 719 Washington St Oakland, CA 94607 RSVP HERE Join us for a little pre-Pink gathering. Graffiti Pizza is a...